be real.

Nobody said it was easy. At first I thought I could change that perspective..

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But the real world proved me wrong that I have to go through the storm, basically all of us have to go through them once in awhile.

Came out with a fresh mind, full of positive thoughts while scrolling through a few of my favorite apps aka websites that are full of motivation and positive thoughts that would enlighten my entire heart and mind. In fact, I would rather tell myself to give it a try. I have to make sure that I will not avoid any problems because leaving out as how it is will not solve anything but instead, I would have to step out and solve it the minute before the problem goes bigger than my room. 

Yes, solving it may be a pain, it feels like you are on the verge of solving a messed up puzzle, lost of directions. You have no idea how to pull yourself out from all of these problems because every time or whenever a problem occurs, I bet it is to either test you. 

When failure and pain strikes you, you may question yourself over a billion times..

"why me?"

"what have I done to deserve this?"

I constantly thought of that whenever I feel discourage and dishearten.

Seeking out for advices from people might or may help you in some ways but do you think it applies to every of your problems? Would it be able to help you?

Suggestions are always welcomed but what is even more better is that..

.. to have the guts to step out and solve it. 

Tell it to their face. Don't be afraid. 

At least you let everything out of your chest. 

If that person plan to hate you for life, let them be because they cannot accept the way you are and of course, if you are being straight forward and tell that person what you don't like and so if that person happened to not like you cause of that, I'm sorry but he or she can never accept their own mistakes, denying the fact that they are wrong.

You've made a new enemy? No, you didn't. These people who simply hate you and cannot accept the fact that they are in the wrong - they asked for it which means they are more interested to be your enemy rather than your friend. 

I mean.. I think it is better to be straight forward (but know your limits) and tell it to the person because you care and don't wish to betray them silently (unlike certain people I've met whom is known of betraying people silently)

Stop the act and be REAL

Express out what you are not happy about instead of hiding because hiding is NEVER going to fix anything.

Remember that you are never in a wrong unless you go around and backstabbed people.